People who don't give it their all in a relationship are setting themselves up for disappointment I've heard stories of mothers asking their daughters to stash away some money without their husband's knowledge, "just in case". People who dates more than one partner at the same time, "just in case" the first one didn't work out. Fathers asking their sons to draw up pre-nup for their would-be wives. Partners play mind games with each other, not willing to be frank and honest with each other. I can understand it if one party senses that the relationship is going downhill due to some reason. Or if there's a slight hint of infidelity and you want to protect yourself and your children in case it turns out to be true. What I don't get is when people do this when they have what could have been a perfect relationship, when there's no sign of your partner cheating at all, when you're just starting to build a relationship or family and then...
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LOVE is... Waking up in the morning and look at each other affectionately....then playfully compete to see whose breath stinks the worst by blowing into each other's face! While having hard-boiled eggs for breakfast, eat the egg yolks and let her have the egg whites simply because it's healthier (insists she have the oats while I have the roti canai instead too). Driving and accompany her to work...even though it's my off day. At lunch, strip the flesh off a chicken drumstick....and let her have the bone. Sharing her with her pet dog, letting it climb all over me, chew on my fingers and toes for play, making me smell quite like it after a while. Instead of getting my dream bike, choose to save up for our upcoming wedding, and to own our first home. Letting her have the newly-bought handphone while I take her used ones, everytime. Treating her to japanese food even though I'm drooling at the thoughts of dishes at New Paris: Deep-fried squid, teochew-style...
